Hub update: 11 sure signs he’s stablising

Hello Houston, we have lift off! My hub is definitely stabilising and I’m bloody loving it!

*crosses fingers so as not to jinx it*

Ok so we had our 999 Emergency call thing last month, but he bounced back bouncier than a rubber ball on a trampoline, so here are 10 signs I’ve noticed recently which makes me think that perhaps – PERHAPS – we’re on course for a bit of stability.

  1. He’s working 3 days in the office and 1 day at home – and managing it
  2. He unknowingly whistles in the mornings whilst getting ready
  3. He has time (and patience) for our daughter
  4. We bickered over the washing up this week, and after he had a tantrum, he came and SPOKE to me to discuss it and clear the air !
  5. He’s sleeping through the night (our Lumie light really helps, I’m loving it too)
  6. We’re having sex! TMI? Sorry!
  7. He’s eating healthily and lost 2 stone with Slimming World in 12 weeks
  8. He didn’t shout at me (too much) when I bumped the car (oops!)
  9. He’s not relying on me to do EVERYTHING with him
  10. When the train is late, or traffic is bad, he doesn’t let it consume his mood like it used to
  11. We’ve been watching the BBC’s documentary series #InTheMind this week and been able to have good rational chats about it.

So there we have it. 11 glorious positive things that signal a shift in behaviour and mood in our house.

I know it won’t last forever, but i’ll always have this blog piece to look back on and remember that there is always hope.

Have a good day everybody

M x

 

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